What just happened?

So, someone got super pissed off to me, and I did nothing wrong. Several people have gotten pissed at me, and again, I did nothing wrong. Please know that if I’m in the wrong, I admit it. I have no problem with admitting when I’m wrong.

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What to do now? I could get equally as pissed and let the hate and resentment grow. Let’s call this option one.

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I could act out passive aggressively. That will be option two.

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Option three is to apologize. I could apologize. Yes, I don’t do anything wrong, and I could apologize. That’s health right?

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My last option is to … do nothing. Go to bed, wake up, take the kiddos to school, go to work, and live my life. I can make the decision to be happy and let the others be miserable. I can focus on what I am responsible for, and let others be angry. I can let it go, and go on.

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In the past, I would go for option three. I would take on their feelings, and end up feeling like crap. I would grovel for acceptance when I didn’t do ANYTHING, and I would end up feeling horrible until I received what seemed to be acceptance.

WOW! How screwed up was I? I’m trying to do things differently right now. I am too old and tired to put up with this crap.

If you are put into similar situations, please let me know. I just want to know that I’m not alone. I would love to be a source of support for those who are going through the same things.

Have a good night and sleep well.

Until next time…

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One thought on “What just happened?

  1. you know darned well you are not alone in this. NONE of us have a clue when it comes to being attaked for absolutely no reason……and we all want to say sorry and hope the other person will suddenly like us again. Counselor, heal thyself??? yea, I know..heard that one a thousand times myself. One of your remarks to Danny got me over here to check out the blog..and have to say, I do not hear two voices here. Just one. so…both of you from Georgia or only one? both of you ex-counselors or only one. The absolute curiosity of the ex-counselor has appeared and I will probably bug the heck out of you trying to find who you are….Pretty sure I am safe….not a stalker with a b ad attitude at any rate. Looking forward to another post whereby I still won’t know which one of the pair is speaking…lol

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